BY ANA ACLE AND ANDRES VIGLUCCI
As the Cuban government and Elian Gonzalez's grandmothers bitterly
complained
about the tension-filled Miami meeting with their grandson, visit
host Sister Jeanne
O'Laughlin surprised virtually everyone Thursday by shedding
her ``neutral'' stance
and calling for the boy to stay in the United States.
O'Laughlin is not only talking about it; she is taking action.
O'Laughlin said she
decided to go to Capitol Hill -- at her own expense -- to lobby
U.S. Attorney
General Janet Reno, a close friend, and other federal officials.
Immigration
officials quickly said O'Laughlin's opinion would not affect
their stance that
Elian should be reunited with his father in Cuba.
The Miami family's supporters exulted over O'Laughlin's announcement
and
other unexpected news Thursday:
A federal judge hearing the family's lawsuit to block the government
from sending
Elian to Cuba put off a hearing until March, giving them time
to press for
proposals in Congress to give the boy U.S. citizenship.
The National Council of Churches, a U.S. Protestant and Orthodox
group that
sponsored the grandmother's U.S. trip, withdrew from further
involvement after the
Cuban Interests Section in Washington took control of the agenda.
``How are we doing? Pretty good,'' said family advisor Armando
Gutierrez. ``Strike
one, Sister Jeanne; strike two, the judge giving us time; strike
three, the National
Council pulling out.''
POSITIONS HARDEN
Even as supporters tallied up the score, it seemed evident that
Wednesday's
reunion between Elian and his grandmothers mostly succeeded in
hardening
positions on both sides of the Florida Straits.
Though it accomplished its main goal of a visit between them,
the fallout suggests
it failed to advance any kind of resolution to the impasse.
O'Laughlin said in an interview that before the meeting she believed
Elian should
go home. She changed her mind after seeing ``fear emanating''
from both the
grandmothers, Mariela Quintana and Raquel Rodriguez, and the
boy's Miami
relatives. O'Laughlin, president of Barry University, blamed
the fear on the Cuban
government, though she was not more specific.
``The laws of this nation always support the bond of a parent
and child unless
there is a dramatic circumstance,'' O'Laughlin said before departing
for
Washington late Thursday. ``This is a dramatic time. Because,
as I found myself
imagining the child growing into manhood, the fear that seemed
to be emanating
made me question the environment this child has come from.''
HAVANA COMPLAINTS
Even before O'Laughlin made her announcement, the Cuban government,
apparently based on accounts from the grandmothers, began complaining
about
the ``humiliating'' treatment allegedly accorded them during
the meeting.
Among the complaints detailed in a long unsigned article in Thursday's
edition of
Granma, the Cuban Communist Party daily: That nuns in O'Laughlin's
house
constantly interrupted the private meeting between Elian and
the grandmothers
with ``trifles'' to eat as an excuse to deliver messages praising
the Miami
relatives, and that a cell phone the grandmothers carried was
confiscated as Elian
and his father in Cuba, Juan Miguel Gonzalez, began a conversation
-- their first
outside the supervision of the Miami family.
Though O'Laughlin said the cell phone violated ground rules for
the meeting, the
Cubans and the grandmothers said that was never their understanding.
Later Thursday, Elian's father lashed out at the nuns' handling of the meeting.
``They brought everything crashing down,'' he told a meeting of
the
Pittsburgh-Matanzas Sister Cities Association in Cuba. ``I feel
more indignant
than ever, seeing how these brave mothers and grandmothers went
into the heart
of the Mafia.''
`CARING AND PASTORAL'
But Bob Edgar, general secretary of the National Council of Churches,
who was
at the house during the meeting, said the complaints about the
meeting were
simply ``wrong.''
``Sister Jeanne needs to be commended. She was hospitable. She
was caring
and pastoral,'' he said. ``That doesn't take away that I think
the grandmothers are
right. They are loving grandmothers, and they want their grandson
back.''
However, Edgar diplomatically questioned O'Laughlin's decision
to take a stand
on the issue of Elian's return, calling it ``a mistake.''
``When she accepted the responsibility from the INS to be a neutral
person, I
think the rights of being a public person ended,'' Edgar said.
``I'm saddened but I
understand it. Sister Jeanne has to live in the neighborhood.''
FEARED HARM
Edgar attributed the grandmothers' fear during the meeting not
to the Cuban
government, but to the presence of vocal demonstrators outside
the house and of
Cuban American National Foundation officers in an adjoining yard
-- both of which
he said violated the rules for the meeting.
He said the women feared they could come to physical harm. That
was why the
grandmothers' departure for the house from Opa-locka airport,
where they landed
in a chartered flight from Washington, was delayed for an hour.
Edgar also said his group withdrew from involvement with the trip
after the visit
was over, when officials from the Cuban Interests Section stepped
in.
LIMITED MISSION
``Our mission was to bring the grandmothers and give them an opportunity
to
meet with Elian. We accomplished our mission,'' he said. ``When
those wheels
lifted off yesterday, it was clear the Cuban Interests Section
was deciding where
the plane was going.''
O'Laughlin said Cuba's criticism of the meeting disturbed her.
```When I hugged the grandmothers goodbye, they were friendly
and thankful,''
she said. ``I did not feel any antipathy.''
Wearing an emerald cross on a chain around her neck, O'Laughlin
defended her
decision to speak out, saying it was ``the truth in my heart.''
``If there was a doubt that I was neutral, you have to look at
my perception on
Monday and Tuesday,'' she said. ``At the time, I thought the
child should return to
his father in Cuba.
Of the three nuns at the house during the meeting, Sister Leonor
Esnard, who
came to the United States from Cuba when she was 14 with her
younger brother
on a Pedro Pan flight in 1961, had the closest contact with the
grandmothers
during their visit.
Contradicting reports from Cuba that the meeting was ``hellish,''
Esnard described
a very comfortable, private atmosphere. She said she could not
hear their
conversation, but did hear a lot of laughter. At one point, the
grandmothers began
taking pictures with the boy. It wasn't until the boy had left
that the grandmothers
broke down in tears.
``We tried to console them, but they were too upset,'' Esnard
said. ``I felt for
them. They love that kid.''
Herald translator Renato Perez contributed to this report.
Copyright 2000 Miami Herald