BY CAROL ROSENBERG
WASHINGTON -- U.S. officials decided to take a tough stand to
force
Wednesday's meeting between Elian Gonzalez and his grandmothers
because
mediation had broken down and they were outraged by reports that
the boy's
Miami relatives had told him his grandmothers were coming to
dinner on Monday
night -- even though they had been told 24 hours earlier that
no such dinner would
take place.
''How cruel is that?'' said one official. Another called it a ''sham family dinner.''
''The level of obstinacy that they were putting forward was unacceptable,
just
unacceptable,'' said a Clinton administration official, defending
a tough letter that
the Immigration and Naturalization Service sent to lawyers for
Elian's great-uncle
Lazaro Gonzalez on Tuesday that ordered the meeting with the
grandmothers.
Justice Department lawyers were so concerned that the Miami relatives
would not
deliver Elian to the meeting Wednesday that they were prepared
to seek an
emergency hearing in a Miami federal court Wednesday morning,
government
sources said. The attorneys would have asked that the family
be declared in
contempt of a lawful federal order.
DINNER PLANS
An attorney for Lazaro Gonzalez defended the Miami family's actions.
Roger
Bernstein said Lazaro had always maintained that his Little Havana
house was
the best place for a meeting. He said the family had to tell
Elian of the possibility
his grandmothers would arrive, even though the visit was not
certain, because the
boy had heard the news broadcast on Spanish-language television.
''We never conclusively knew they were coming to dinner,'' Bernstein
said. ''We
believed once they got on the plane that was the best likelihood
that they would
show up for dinner -- because there was nothing else on the [negotiating]
table.''
INS spokeswoman Maria Cardona said, however, that government lawyers
had
told Lazaro's attorneys by 4:30 p.m. Sunday -- both by phone
and in a formal
faxed letter -- that the grandmothers would not meet Elian at
Lazaro's home and
they were seeking a ''private, neutral location.''
Attorneys on both sides then proposed several locations, a church,
other relatives'
homes, a religious retreat -- but the family refused all.
But the grandmothers departed for Miami from New York anyway,
a decision
apparently made by their National Council of Churches hosts to
break the
deadlock on a meeting spot.
A Justice Department official said the New York departure was
a surprise in
Washington, and had the reverse result. Once the grandmothers
were airborne,
Bernstein said Lazaro flatly refused any other meeting place
but his house.
''Once they got on the plane it was an untenable situation for us,'' Bernstein said.
The grandmothers were equally adamant. ''They wanted it in the
house with a lot
of people and a party,'' said paternal grandmother Mariela Quintana.
''I'm not up for
a party. I just want to talk to my grandson alone, and they wouldn't
let us.''
Added Raquel Rodriguez: ''I will never go to that house.''
PERSONAL PLEDGE
Immigration service spokeswoman Cardona said that both INS Commissioner
Doris Meissner and Attorney General Janet Reno were determined
after Monday's
refusal to establish a mechanism to enable a private meeting
between Elian and
his grandmothers.
Why? ''For the sake of the boy,'' and because the Clinton administration
officials
had personally pledged to the women that Reno would arrange it
after a meeting
at Reno's office on Saturday.
The government's order setting up the meeting marked the first
time that U.S.
officials had shown themselves willing to exercise active authority
to intervene in
the case, and hints at how the government might try to enforce
a final decision to
return Elian to Cuba.
In the past, INS Commissioner Meissner had recommended only that
the family
decide among themselves by Jan. 14 on how to return the child
to his father, Juan
Miguel Gonzalez in Cuba. Then, after a Florida family court awarded
temporary
custody to Lazaro, Attorney General Reno withdrew the deadline,
saying the
Florida court had no jurisdiction but that she would welcome
a federal court
challenge.
But Tuesday's letter for the first time told the family that Elian's
immigration
parole, which allows him to remain in the United States, would
be at risk if the
family didn't comply.
If U.S. District Judge William M. Hoeveler supports the government's
argument
that the INS is correct in refusing the child a political asylum
hearing, officials are
considering issuing the family another letter with a new deadline
for Elian's return.
If the family does not comply, government attorneys could then
seek a court order
to either withdraw Elian's parole or punish the great-uncle for
refusing to comply,
or both.
Copyright 2000 Miami Herald