Sister Jeanne: Grandma wanted to defect
BY MEG LAUGHLIN
After three weeks of silence, Sister Jeanne O'Laughlin has decided
to tell exactly why she
abandoned her position of neutrality and became an advocate for
those who believe that 6-year-old
Elian Gonzalez should stay in the United States rather than return
to Cuba.
O'Laughlin now says that the night Elian met with his grandmothers
in her home
in Miami Beach, she learned that one of the grandmothers wanted
to defect.
She says she learned that the father and his family knew about
Elian's mother's
plan to bring him to Miami on a boat 10 days before they left.
And finally, she says she learned that Elian's father had been
physically abusive
to the boy's mother.
``I've decided to talk,'' O'Laughlin told The Herald late Friday.
She said Miami
lawyer Roger Bernstein, who is fighting to keep the boy here,
had visited her and
persuaded her to tell what she knew to help his case. She said
she had not done
so previously because she did not want ``to endanger the family
in Cuba.''
``But this is more about that little boy than anyone else, and
I have to do whatever
I can to help him,'' she says.
Senior U.S. District Judge William Hoeveler has scheduled a hearing
for Tuesday
in a lawsuit brought by Elian's Miami relatives, seeking to force
the Immigration
and Naturalization Service to grant Elian the right to request
political asylum.
The hearing is on the narrow issue of whether Hoeveler has jurisdiction
in the
case -- the INS argues he does not -- and it is unlikely that
O'Laughlin's
revelations will influence those discussions on points of law.
But it is certain to
reignite debate on her role in the Elian case.
Since taking a stand three weeks ago, O'Laughlin has been at the
center of
international controversy. Her house had been chosen as a neutral
site for the
reunion between the grandmothers and Elian. But the day after
the meeting,
O'Laughlin told reporters that the meeting had changed her mind
about where
Elian should live.
``The laws of this nation always support the bond of a parent
and child unless
there is a dramatic circumstance,'' she said then. ``This is
a dramatic time.
Because, as I found myself imagining the child growing into manhood,
the fear
that seemed to be emanating made me question the environment
this child has
come from.''
The reasons she gave, both in her public comments and in a later
article written
for The New York Times opinion pages, were vague: She believed
Elian had
bonded with his 21-year-old cousin Marisleysis Gonzalez, and
she sensed fear
emanating from the grandmothers, which she believed was caused
by the Cuban
government.
QUESTIONS RAISED
But her explanations only raised more questions: How could she
have formed a
credible conclusion about the child and his cousin after being
with them for less
than hour? And how could she say that the grandmothers' nervousness
during the
meeting was caused by Cuba rather than demonstrators outside
her house? Had
her role as president of Barry University influenced her pronouncement?
``Sister Jeanne has to live in the neighborhood,'' was the reaction
of Bob Edgar,
the director of the National Conference of Churches, which sponsored
the
grandmothers' trip.
Even as recently as Tuesday, in a three-hour interview with The
Herald, O'Laughlin
refused to detail her reasons. ``I had to be vague, and I know
I sounded flaky,'' she
said during that interview.
But she continued to decline to be more specific until Friday,
after she talked with
Bernstein.
She now says that at the end of the meeting at her house, after
Elian and his
Miami family had left, she had about five minutes alone with
both grandmothers
and then a few minutes with the mother of Elian's mother. In
that time, she says,
she got convincing information.
``I am not fluent in Spanish,'' she says. ``But I understand most
of what is said to
me in Spanish. And I clearly understood what was said to me that
night.''
CHANGE OF DEMEANOR
Maj. Steve Robbins of the Miami Beach Police Department, who was
in the house
when O'Laughlin talked with the grandmothers, says he was standing
at the
bottom of the stairs when she went upstairs to see them.
``She was happy and relaxed when she went up, but when she came
down after
talking to them, she looked terribly distressed,'' he says.
He says he thought something had happened that shocked her, and
he asked her
about it.
``But she would not answer,'' he says. ``She just looked terribly preoccupied.''
O'Laughlin then walked out to the gate of her house and spoke
about the meeting
to the press and hundreds of people gathered there. Her comments
were neutral:
``I believe in hope. It has been an informative day. I am so
thankful for this
opportunity to host this meeting and to touch lives.''
But O'Laughlin says now that she was in fact devastated. When
she went back
into her house, she wept and prayed for most of the night.
Early the next morning, she called Sister Janet Capone, the prioress
of the Adrian
Sisters in Adrian, Mich. Capone is O'Laughlin's superior.
`SOMETHING IS WRONG'
``I know something is very wrong, and I can't be specific,'' Capone
says
O'Laughlin told her. ``So, I'm going to make a vague public statement
that will be
very controversial.''
Janet Capone: ``I told her to follow her conscience.''
But before she did, O'Laughlin called Maj. Robbins and asked him
to come to her
house to discuss the meeting with the grandmothers. Robbins says
she asked
him whether he had heard anything and he said no. He asked her
what she had
heard, and she said she could not tell him. He told her he had
noticed how upset
she was after talking with the grandmothers.
``She nodded, but she said nothing specific,'' he says. ``But
I thought something
big must have happened.''
``I did not tell anyone what I really knew until today,'' O'Laughlin said Friday.
According to the version of events O'Laughlin now recounts, one
of the
grandmothers was present when her husband called Lazaro Gonzalez,
Elian's
great-uncle in Miami, and told him that Elian and his mother
would be making the
journey to Miami. The conversation occurred 10 days before Elian
and his mother
left Cuba.
After hearing that, ``I thought that the boy must have come with
his father's
blessing,'' she said.
NEW VIEW OF FATHER
She also said Friday that information from one of the grandmothers
that the father
had been abusive to Elian's mother made her question how good
a father he
would be to Elian. And finally, she says, one of the grandmothers
speaking to her
about defecting made her question whether the child should go
back.
``This talk of defecting got me to thinking; if one of the adults
wanted out, perhaps
it was not a good place for the child,'' she says.
She says that the grandmother who wanted to defect spoke of a
secret video in
which she said she wanted to leave Cuba and that it would someday
become
available.
The credibility of O'Laughlin's account may hinge on the level
of her understanding
of Spanish. Sister Leonor Esnard, who served as an interpreter
at the meeting
with the grandmothers, said she was not present for O'Laughlin's
private moments
with the grandmothers. ``I translated nothing they said to her,''
she said.
O'Laughlin, 70, says she studied Spanish in college for four years
and passed her
language competency exam for her doctoral degree. She says she
has read
novels in Spanish. Sister Peg Albert, Barry's executive vice
president, says
O'Laughlin often interprets what people say in Spanish. ``She
doesn't understand
everything, but she gets the gist,'' Albert said Saturday.
NOT A SPEAKER
O'Laughlin is not known for speaking Spanish in public. She says
she doesn't
because she is embarrassed. ``I just don't have the tongue for
it,'' she said.
Ever since she met Elian, O'Laughlin says, she has lain awake
at night thinking
about him: because he is such a small child and she has always
been a sap for
small children, and because he lost his mother at the same age
at which she lost
her mother and she identifies with him.
``My father raised me and was wonderful,'' she says. ``I'm not
opposed at all to
any child being raised by a loving father.''
And because she found the child's eyes so haunting: ``He is too
young to have
such old, tormented eyes,'' she says.
``It may be too late for him,'' she says. ``If he had gone back
immediately before
so many people on both sides wanted control of him, he would
have been better
off. But as it is now, I pray every day that whether he stays
or goes back, he can
survive this.''
And, she says, she prays for something else: ``That I do what
I believe is right
and survive this, too.''